rising from the ground

It hurts but sometimes you have to distance yourself from people it even happens in families. The relationship you have with this person is draining you, partly because of the decisions they make and partly because of the feelings you will always have for them. It's hard but do it for yourself and them. If they know they always have you to run to for that shoulder to cry on they'll continue to make the same mistakes. Maybe if you're not there they'll wake up