Honestly I think he did have the insight. I believe he knew what he was doing and why. You can especially tell in their last scene when he's watching him pack or when he's handing him the drink, his face says it all.

I really do believe Brian grew up. He had to after what happened to them. I think he was ready for the commitment. It had to happen, the character evolving. Course Cowlip screwed it all up but whatever lol.

I'm sorry I made you cry though. *hugs* Hope it was a good kind though!